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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:51

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What I need from you?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What exactly is female squirting? Is it only urine or a combination of liquids?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Procrastinates a lot.

Whenever I write a novel, I struggle with the end, should I make it open? Should the good win or the bad win? Sometime I don't even have an ending, what should I do?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why does everyone hate Anthony Joshua so much? I get that he isn’t the best heavyweight boxer ever but people claim he’s a no skill fighter but he has an Olympic gold medal, a world championship, and beat Klitschko, a dominant force in boxing

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can you share 100 facts about yourself?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why is it that when the Democrats absolutely love everyone to be LGBTP, they don't even acknowledge that Barack Obama and his husband Big Mike are homosexual, and he is the first homosexual president of the USA?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do narcissists love their children?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Ask yourself:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Do straight guys like to see cocks?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Have you ever been forced into bestiality?

That's it for today.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What do flat Earthers think causes the "magical downward force"?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Methane-eating sea spiders discovered off Southern California coast - SFGATE

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

The people who are 'allergic' to humans - BBC

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How did a computer scientist such as Geoffrey Hinton manage to win a Nobel Prize in physics when computer science already has its own Nobel Prize equivalent in the Turing Awards?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Does not procrastinate.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?